We as people may not always realize that there are changes to be made; whether we are labeled as a "good" human being or a "bad" one. We are dependent on ourselves and others; we coexist. Coexistence, along with, cohabitation. In todays society we have come to the point where couples of both same-sex and opposite sex cohabitate without being married.
In my circumstances, I am cohabitating with my fiance/father of my child -- this is considered normal in many cases and objectified in others. To me it does not matter what others may think of it; I have created a family that started with a sexual relation. Relationships can start with just a few months of time and turn out to be grand, people just have to accept that. When people cohabitate, whether with a child or not, they are going to have problems, complications, and disagreements...it is NORMAL. Choose to admit it or not, your choice, but I have decided to admit it. We squeeze ourselves into tight spaces and closed walls with the people we love because we love them. To clarify - example - Steven and I moved in together because we love each other and we were beginning a family together, we chose to take the hard route of living together because we love each other and want to be a family.
Families work through things: difficult, demanding, untroubled, and undisturbed. Whatever the situation may hold, a family works through it.
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To Noah From Mommy
I really enjoyed creating this piece, it was super hard to get into this format, but it is just absolutely wonderful.
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